Wife has ulcers on vulva
 

Am I screwed?

Recently visited 4 diff mls.

2 hj, 2 fs with condoms. No kissing.

What are the chances of me getting hpv or syphilis and infection my wife?

Re: Wife has ulcers on vulva
 

HPV is possible as condoms do not provide much protection.

Syphilis is far less likely unless one of the whores you fucked actually had a chancre.

What do the ulcers look like? Photo?

Re: Wife has ulcers on vulva
 

Sorry don't have any photos yet. But it kinda looks like this on her vulva(image was taken from another thread here)



But she said it's been really itchy a few days ago although not as much today.

She gunna go test soon.

What do you bros do? What reason should I give?

Re: Wife has ulcers on vulva
 

It could be genital herpes too. I am in same situation. Worried that I will transmit to wife. Now I freak out whenever I need to have sex with her

There’s no valid reason. I am struggling with it myself

Re: Wife has ulcers on vulva
 

Sigh. Do you have any signs of ulcers or whatever on your genitals?

Re: Wife has ulcers on vulva
 

When I had my first outbreak 10 months ago, I had one blister at the base of my penile shaft. The part normally not covered by condom.

To be honest if I didn’t visit wls I may think i accidentally scratched it or maybe underwear abrasion etc. but because I visited wls so I went to check and it got swabbed and confirmed as hsv 2

Since then I have been on daily valtrex to reduce the risk of transmission. And I have had zero symptoms so far, it could be due to the valtrex or not I am not sure.

The thing is transmission can happen with or without symptoms for hsv and hpv.

Re: Wife has ulcers on vulva
 

Yeah sorry to hear that.. At least you have it under control and your wife doesn't know?

Keep it that way and stop punting... Man I'm devastated if she finds out. Afraid she'll leave me. Sad.

I really hope it's a yeast infection or some sort and not STD... But chances probably not to my liking...

Re: Wife has ulcers on vulva
 

HI Bro... whatever it is... just dont admit. Once admitted, u are dead.

Rgds,
James

Re: Wife has ulcers on vulva
 

Yeah, I don't think it's hsv, I don't seem to have any symptoms of it.

Hpv takes 1 to 3 months as well right for symptoms to appear?

Re: Wife has ulcers on vulva
 

That's Herpes ie HSV.

Re: Wife has ulcers on vulva
 

It is under control but like I said it makes no difference, most transmissions happen when there are no symptoms. Punt or not won’t make a difference already.

In your case, your wife has hsv herpes for sure looking at the photo

You may have had no symptoms - that is normal for most people.

Re: Wife has ulcers on vulva
 

Hpv normally has no visible symptoms. Only comes up during Pap smears

Re: Wife has ulcers on vulva
 

That’s a problem. I have no idea how to address it if my wife gets it. Is there any creative story. It’s genital herpes, there is no way of getting it other than sex

No matter wat this is a really difficult situation u are in. If she get tested and confirm its herpes, she will question the fk out of u. She will ask u to get tested and maybe deduce on who got it first. I got tested a few mths ago and got a clean sheet but after hearing ur story i think this is enuff to quit the scene for good. Even hj can get std as catbathing is nt safe also.

Re: Wife has ulcers on vulva
 

No way... I am fucked. Only itchy, no pain or anything,still herpes?

I don't even have any ulcers or anything.

If she tests positive I don't know how to explain.

Surely it can be something else? Yeast infection or some other bacterial infection?