can't get hard when visiting ML
 

Not sure if it's the right sub forum...

Been visiting MLs a few times be it overseas or local. I can't seem to get hard even with teasing, roaming them or even sucking on their boobies. As if my cock is spoil. Not sure if it's because room too cold or if it's the guilt knowing my second half doesn't know this side of me.

However, I have no issues getting hard and performing when I'm banging my wife. Strange.

Any bros similar to me?

Re: can't get hard when visiting ML
 

are you a vegan or vegetarian ? ;)

Nope haha. I'm not the fittest but also not obese. Just do some calisthenics workout occasionally with jogging 2x a week

Re: can't get hard when visiting ML
 

If it works fine at home it means there is absolutely nothing wrong physically.

The problem must therefore be in your head.

Anxiety/guilt/apprehension etc is an erection killer. You're obviously not at ease in a commercial sex setting. It's a pretty common affliction so you are not alone.

Most people simply resort to popping the blue pill. As you gain confidence the dosage can be reduced to the point when you don't need chemical assistance anymore.

https://www.verywellhealth.com/stres...nction-5202285

Re: can't get hard when visiting ML
 

guilt tripped or ML just didnt meet your expectations.

Re: can't get hard when visiting ML
 

Hey bro, just sharing from my own personal experience. I have the exactly same problem with you. When i try commercial it is very hard for me to get it hard. While at home no issue.
I am mid 30 now. Went to do my blood test for testosterone level and found out it was low. Start doing the therapy and after 3 session of hormone therapy, performance is good at commercial scene.
I think at home or we are more relax, hence easier for us to erect altho the testosterone level is low.
My advise is to consult doctor and find out what is the root cause.
It can be many factors such as psychology or maybe testosterone level.
Good to find the root cause and get it treated.
Best of luck in chionging :)

Re: can't get hard when visiting ML
 

thanks bro for sharing. hormone level plays the part. A bit of hormone therapy will do the good.

Re: can't get hard when visiting ML
 

I would say its the universe tells you to not do commercial haha.

Re: can't get hard when visiting ML
 

everyone body is different
Some need mental stimulation to get hard, while some just get hard when a girl strip naked.

Re: can't get hard when visiting ML
 

haha, poor guy

Re: can't get hard when visiting ML
 

i agree to the bro that mention about testerone, that is what matter to a man. it help alot. since you exercise a lot, it could also be pshcologyical barrier.

your inner mental want you to be faithful, but you have the lust to chiong. very contradicting.

If you cant get hard, may be you can save up the money for future. LOLX

Re: can't get hard when visiting ML
 

Haha, yup consider it as a way to save money

Re: can't get hard when visiting ML
 

Thanks all bros who took the time to reply.i guess it's really a psychological thing for me. 🥺