[divedeeper]

Originally Posted by seowlang

A part of me died when I signed the divorce papers. But somehow, deep down inside, I just could never forget J even though it has almost been 5 years when it all started. I know nothing can come out of this even though I am divorced from her sis. I am just clinging on to the past and unable to let go. Our meetup over the weekend really didn't help. I had a hidden agenda to meet up with her.. I just wanted to see her...

Bro, if you have feelings for J, your agenda shouldn't be hidden. You should tell her. If she is interested or not, she will tell you. That way you can go in one direction or the other, without looking back. Now that you are single, you shouldn't bury yourself in work, only to be alone in the evenings. You should be with someone. If not with J, then with someone else.