[mattrayham]

More updates in the covid era post 2020:

A couple of women I met from some arts classes I take part time.

1. European friend - average looking girl next door look. Don't imagine she's a model or some pretty ang moh. Really very average. Neither slim nor obese, but nicely curvy. But what caught me was her eyes and sweet smile, and also her mind (she's got PHD). I'm a sapiosexual (love fucking and dating smart girls). Developed platonic friendship over a year, just hanging out watching theatrical shows before covid, movies, games. Occasional moments of looking at each other in some romantic sparkly kinda way but briefly only. Sometimes I accidentally peek at her pretty ample boobs, and when we platonically hug, I feel them too. Then one day before she left Singapore for her home, we decided to go on a trip to Indonesia over a weekend as "travel buddies". Had a smashing good time there, final night before separating, had some drinks at the hotel bar, we made our moves, and had tipsy sex. Verdict: it's best we stayed as friends (with occasional benefits), but we didn't really regret the sex, just a good learning experience for us. Still stay in touch now, when covid's over will consider making a trip to Europe and see how we progress from there.

2. Nerdy local girl, 19 year old student. Face I'd say kinda cute but wouldn't turn heads one, petite, about 155 ~ 160 cm, and slim but curvy at the hips and breasts. The kind I'd carry around and fuck, which I did. We did a class together, and we partnered up on an activity. Then don't know why she randomly asked me - a stranger then - if I'd like to have dinner with her. I was like, what? She said she wanted to learn some tips from me since I was more experienced in the class we were taking. We did have dinner, and moments of playful teasing, but didn't close. Then a couple weeks later I organised a movie viewing session at my place with my group of friends, and she's connected to one of my friends. Only like 3 people came, end of the night, everyone left, but her. So we did it. OMG she's a repressed nympho. If you see her, you'd never think she's that kind of gal.

3. This spoilt trust fund girl. Met her first in some life coaching program, became friends from there, then I introduced her to my arts community. We developed friendship over a couple of months, hanging out, working on some creative projects. She's Chinese from one of the neighbouring countries brought up in the US. Hot athletic body, combined with a cute although sometimes sulky face, American accent, plus very Christian upbringing. Potent combo. She actually was trying to convert me and bring me to her church. I kept refusing that but kept hanging out with her as friends. One confused and conflicted but sexually potent girl - on one hand, wants to be a "good missionary for Jesus" but is always touchy and frisky and close with me and drops sexual innuendos now and then. Honestly one of the most irritating and difficult and spoilt persons I've dealt with, but I was thinking more with my dickhead than my head. One time we're hanging out I just innocently complained of some body aches, she offered to place her hands and pray the pain goes away. So she placed her hands on my chest and back, praying, and I genuinely felt it worked, so I looked up into her eyes and said Thanks, both of us couldn't resist temptation anymore, went in for the kiss and made love there and then.