Originally Posted by mattrayham
Both got its pros & cons. It depends also on what you are like as a person and what you ultimately want.
FL Pros:
- Relatively cheaper & the price more a la carte. You only pay for the 1 or 2 hours for that 1 or 2 shots. Even if overnight or book an FL for a couple of days, the price is transparent. You know what you're paying for.
- Can try a wide variety depending on availability and budget.
- GFE or not, they can't say No to fucking you, 'cos that's part of the package.
- Usually more experienced with sex and you can be experimental with them and try out kinks if they're willing.
- Unless you yourself KC them and try to seduce them, they won't be clingy or needy with you. Once session is done, it's done.
FL Cons:
- Hit or miss, sometimes get those with good GFE, sometimes low GFE. Or sometimes they're actually good at GFE but you got them at a time they're tired.
- Not much human connection beyond just the sex. But not everyone's into this, so this could be an advantage.
- Some risk of catching STD's or other infectious diseases if not careful, since they tend to meet a few people in a day.
- Let's say you like an FL and want to book her for a day or an entire week (talking about escorts in some other countries where this package deal is available) - the price is fixed, can't be bargained (unless you got good bargaining power with the boss), usually expensive.
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Sugar Pros:
- If you want to really connect and get to know a lady beyond just the sex, this is the best route besides actually finding a girlfriend, wife or lover.
- If there's chemistry, GFE comes along with it, just that how the GFE manifests depends on the personality of the sugar baby.
- Also can have a variety, sometimes exotic nationalities that are not available as FL's (or come as more expensive FLs).
- If you set your terms and boundaries right, they also have to respect your boundaries and not be needy or clingy with you.
- Gives you the feeling of conquering sometimes hard-to-get ladies.
- If you have a good thing going with your sugar baby, good chemistry and she possibly likes you beyond the sugar arrangement, sometimes you get bargains or discounts or extras - like spending a whole week or weekend with you without necessarily paying more for her time (e.g. I spent an entire week with a sugar baby who's a 10/10 Brazilian model for just 1,000 USD - where according to market rate for the same time and same type of escort would've cost maybe 10,000 USD at least - plus we were exclusive at that time and we like & trust each other enough to fuck raw - and one time she was my wingwoman and we got another girl to be with us in a threesome)
- The amount you pay them for their time - either monthly or as pay-per-meet - is elastic and stretchable if you're a decent person that they like to spend time with.
- If you're exclusive with 1 sugar baby, assuming she's trustworthy on her word and so are you, lower risks of STD's.
Sugar Cons:
- Some of them can get not only clingy but also ask you for more money beyond the arrangement because of some emergencies - most won't do this, but you just have to watch out and know how to deal with situations like this.
- It's a bit like having a girlfriend - having her as your sugar baby doesn't mean she's your sex slave. She can have periods or tired or just not in the mood for sex. For the long run, you just have to respect her wishes in occasions like this.
- Because the relationship is beyond sex, feelings can get involved and can get messy.
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