Ok bro Sekesaur read your ultra long posting... Think this is the 1st time I read a posting that is this long and not a FR... Haha
I'll try to give u my limited knowledge on this and I know this is your 1st time and all and I bet u most likely won't come back to read my posting, I still going to post and reply to your question and hope some other bros here got the same question and my answer can help out just a little.
1. Dun wank before going, trust me... Better if u just stay away from porn a few days and den visit. This will make u last longer and feel better. Nothing like a hungry men to a meal of meat hehe
2. Touch 1st, sex is not all about in out in out... Not everyone can go like dicks on steroids. Sit behind her, feel her up, touch all the place. Do note not all gals allow fingering so ask 1st n dun do it like jap porn... Wait she tear your dick later haha
3.let her know this is your 1st time, I personally advise 1st time to do with gf as condom feeling is different. Get the 0.03, I like that brand almost feel like not wearing... Almost...(since you're too thick i maybe u wanna try other brand)
4.I had erect problem the 1st time I do it...well I guess it's individual
5.stop when you're about to cum, squeeze the top of your small head or slap it to stop the rush feeling, works for me, I got no problem lasting a good 40mins before it gets numb and I just wanna end it.
Hope these tips helped just a little and if u can afford go for the best. It's a memory u won't soon forget. Hey not like you will have a 1st time ever again... Like forever haha. For me now I dun go for too pretty gals, they make me cum too fast n they cost too much
I prefer quantity den quality so each to their own preference. Still I got to say again 1st time best for your 1st gf and even better if she is also 1st time, just dun get her preg @ the 1st time... U wanna have more sex rite keke
Oh ha, before I end remember, always let the big head do the thinking, the small head got no brain haha. Hope to hear your experience