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Originally Posted by Boat collector
Same here, living in AC and visiting as a tourist not the same. Imagine Bro Datou's dilemma with the multiple girls times 10!! Even if you are like the German guy, and have an understanding girl. Everytime you go barhop your girl is out looking for the one she truly loves.. No such thing as a truly understanding girl, that will share you with other women! If she agrees, that mean she is not that into you.. and probably wants something material not emotional from you. So guys has chance to get hurt to.

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But u must remember their relationship is customer n bargirl just that it's a regular longterm barfine n he treats her very well.
Of course the girl will look into financial n material needs first n
she has to agree to be understanding when he is the boss that pays her check.He expects her to stay in hotel when he goes barhop.
That's why she is taking a risk on her longterm paycheck by sneaking out to find true love.
She told me she cannot text messages infront of him ,so maybe in the toilet.
That why I often don't get replies after texting her.
Of course if other like gf/bf relationship then your theory of

No such thing as a truly understanding girl, that will share you with other women! If she agrees, that mean she is not that into you.. and probably wants something material not emotional from you. So guys has chance to get hurt too) is revelent imo.