[peter388]

[QUOTE=perrymason32;7127406]Guys, I haven't posted an FR here in a long while. But Jia Jia's retirement is a big blow, and quite frankly there is a certain kind of hollowness to me today that I cannot quite describe. I've even lost my appetite. Laugh all you want, but I just called this afternoon to check if she really wasn't working anymore. This is a terrible sense of loss that, again, I cannot quite describe.

All the same, I must agree with the bros who say we should be happy for her. Yes, must be happier for her than I am upset that I may never get to see her again.

I wish her all the best and hope that upon returning home she buys a nice piece of real estate, a shop lot or something and rents it out so she can take care of her loved ones better without having to ever return to this line

From what I've read here, she was not the political type. From what I've experienced with every blessed session with her, she was sincere, gentle yet had that rough edge in bed, open to sharing and conversation...in all ways special. Special. Special. Special's the word that comes to mind if ever I could use only one word to describe Jia Jia.

Hi bro, I also like Jia Jia a lot. She is a gal who always tries to do her best to please bros. I shall miss her immensely. I know how you feel. Hopeful time will heal.

Let me share with you my heartbreaking story with another PRC gal, also an angpai who had retired 6 months ago. I visited her 2 times per week at least without fail. During her rest period, we met for meals, shows and shopping. She never asked for any present and I often bought her gifts not of high value. She did not ask for any gift up to her last day in Singapore . We are not only friends were also in love. After her return to China, we continued to talk over phone and Skype. We exchanged SMS and email daily. All the time she was caring and loving and never hinted for financial help. There was so much to talk among me.

She was wiling to marry me but you know it should be impossible to bring her back to Singapore. The deal could not be done to my great regret. Then one day she called me and said her high school sweetheart had proposed to her and she wanted to see me for the last time. I flew to her city with some presents and stayed together for 4 days, my honey moon with her. Believe me, there was a really bitter and sweet period for me. She refused to accept angpow from me and again did not ask for any gift. She was such a nice and caring gal. She would definitely make a good wife. She mentioned that she would be faithful to the husband and would not see me again and hope that I could respect her wish. What could I say but yes.

On the way to the airport, I secretly dropped a big angpow in her hand bag as my last gift to her. We kisseed goodbye and After I checked in and only then I phoned her and told her about the angpow and she immediately asked me to come out and return the angpow to me. I told her that now I could not leave the security area. That was it. I must say not all wls are after your money and expensive gifts. But it is extremely rare to find a gal like her in GL. I met many wls after a while they would expect me to give them gifts and of course I would oblige but not costly one like diamond right or gold watch.

Cheer up bro. I believe my involvement with my gal is as deep as your if not more. We will get over the sadness but always remember the sweet moments forever and ever!