HI ALL, ADIOS.
I Am new to this board. Compared to you guys experience, I am still newbie.
But I would like to share some experience and my thoughts with you all and I am eager to hear your opinions about it. Feel free to flame me but with some considerations before doing that. I am just trying to discuss with open mind with some of the experts here.
After having some experience in bonking around penjay, Mangga Besar, KTV, Spa, etc.
I am beginning to see some enlightenment
. Hehehe what a bullshit. But hear me out.
I always thought that good bonking has direct relationships between how beautiful the girls are , or how good the services are. Am I right?
But the more I bonk, the more I am confused because sometimes, maybe sometimes, we are not always bonking or becoming satisfied because of cute girls. Let me try to explain from what I have read. Below statement should clarify
As the experts say that " Actual Sexual pleasure comes in the state of the mind , never in the physical state". In other words Quote" 80% of sexual pleasures come from the mind, 20% from the physical pleasures."
I find this statement partly true (partly) and very disturbing to me. I love bonking cute girls but in actual truth (According to the statement) , is never about the pretty girls , is always about our own minds playing tricks on me?????
SHIT, what a paranoia. just thinking about it.
Let me illustrate with clear examples from my experience. This will further reinforced the point above and disturb my mind further.
1. One time, I have a chance to get close to waitress in a cafe. Because I love to eat in the same spot and same cafe, I talk and talk to the girl. After that the phone number and so on. Maybe because of my friendly looks and handsome of course, I can ask her out and bonk her after several outings. The bonk is one of the hottest bonk, I have ever experienced. Maybe I was so lured by her, I keep persuading, in actuality this effort build the sexual expectations in my mind. And when the bonk actually happens, it just explodes. It is wild and great f4ck I must say. But Pls remember that this girl is in no way comparable to Penjay and Mangga Besar Quality. I can say this girl is cute brownie , very young 19, petite, lovely attitude. But in no way sexy, hot wild like penjay or mangga besar. In terms of service, also, penjay is super experience and super hot, tingling thinking about it.
But the feeling of bonking this young brownie after the persuading efforts, makes the whole thing feel so yummmy.
I hope this illustrations are clear to you. My confusion is that what we are actually searching for by bonking? Cute face? good service? sexual adventures? Free charge bonk? All?
It is disturbing for me, that in actual truth satisfaction comes from our own mind, not the cute face, the good service or wild adventures. It is our own mind that creates separation on what is good satisfactory f4ck and not.
Another Illustrations:
2. Have you wondered why expats love bonking funny looking chics? (For expats reading this, pls no offend , hear my explanations first).
Expats are looking for more adventures in cafe and bars or malls, trying to persuade the SPG to sleep with them. Try to attract them? For some of you, the girls are not even pretty. You are wondering right?
In actual, this could be the sexual adventures I am talking about. It is more exciting and actual more depth.
Expats love persuading chics or seducing chics, remember this fact. Am I right?
We asians love more bonking them ( I am indonesian by the way). So more straightforward sex.
Expats might find this boring and shallow. It is the adventure they are looking for. Never mind the looks.
You see the difference?
It is a mind game.
Fuk, the last thing I want is to have my own mind playing tricks on me.
I want all of your expert opinion about this. To enlighten this lost soul brother.
Sorry for such a long explananations. Pls respond to me with your explanations and analysis. If people want to flame me, feel free but pls include your analysis on it and not empty flame. I am open to ideas and inputs.
Thank you once again.
Frank Out