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Originally Posted by Qwerty6969
I'm in a fix. Been in an affair for almost 2years and my partner fell for me. I tried to blow hot and cold but it doesn't seem to stop him from falling harder. I actually wanted to stop and told him many times I don't think we can go on anymore but everytime he cries and I soften and sticked around.
I really run out of ideas to let him know that I wanted to remain friends..Good good friends cos of our commitments to our respective families. I cannot simply go MIA cos he knows where I live. Any suggestions?
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hot and cold is an emotional roller coaster which can get him more attached to you. u need to be hard let him cry and just dont care. its because u soften so he knows he just needs to cry and you wont go.