[TheIdesOfMarch]

Personally, I started using commercial sex options after I turned 18 and was finally of legal age to go to Geylang; it complemented my other outlets for my sex life which was primarily in swinging back then. This was quite a while ago now.

Been reflecting back on my past decade of life and specifically my sex life journey, and I've come to the realisation that I've increasingly dismissed the desire to want to date normally especially in the world of 2023. A large part of it has to do with me already being sexually "jaded" in the sense that I've mostly been there done that both with my past exes and with commercial sex workers (FLs, Geylang girls, MLs), and hence I don't feel the urge to pursue romantic relationships with girls just because I want to get laid and have someone to fuck. I used to want to get into relationships because of romantic love and wanting to have my own children, but now that's largely gone too because I wouldn't want to raise a kid in the world we live in today and I've grown out of the whole "one must have children to leave a legacy in the world" naïve mentality.

Realistically, commercial sex allows one a practically unlimited choice of escorts that you can pick out according to your own taste, not to mention that it is very efficient and hence doesn't waste time for one who wants just to check clear. From talking with some of my real life guy friends who also engaged in commercial sex from a young age, they were also of the opinion that having experience in commercial sex makes a guy less likely to date as they will see dating as a waste of time in terms of time and energy expended.

Have any of you here found yourself not bothering with romantic love/dating as a single guy anymore because of your experiences with/accesibility to commercial sex? What is your mentality about it?