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Gentlemen, its a game. However you have to understand the rules and there are prices to be paid. If your conscience gets pricked its a good sign; you still retain some semblence of “decency”. You can drink the milk but don’t bring the cow home. Always pay for the milk. Nobody cares what reason you have in wanting to drink outside milk. Frankly the cows don’t give a damn and either do we. Thats your private business and no need to seek justification from anyone. You are adults who are free to choose whatever actions deemed lawful in the society you live in. Separate monogamy from love it’ll help you a lot. Love = Monogamy is an ideal, real life is seldom ideal. If your life goal is not to have a family, don’t feel obligated to marry or have a gf just because the rest do. Stay single and fuck around. If you want a family there is a steeper price to pay. Its natural :you want more u have to pay more. No matter what exercise caution, protect yourself (condoms & testing) and keep it low key. Don’t be led solely by the desire and lose clarity. Cheong solo. Singapore society is unforgiving and can be pretentious. If people discover your deviant ways, they will likely capitalize on it.