Possible to befriend and fall for an FL?

[sytlover123]

Originally Posted by Rubbaking

Well said. End of day, I have not seen examples yet myself of how a man who ends up with a wl has decent outcome.

Some of my friends are still together until they have children and are adults. and they are now old together. But it can be seen that my friend's life is declining financially/not being successful. I don't know whether this has anything to do with his life being with WL or whether he is no longer in his prime. But 3 of my friends who have WL wives experienced the same fate

[dumbling]

Originally Posted by sytlover123

Some of my friends are still together until they have children and are adults. and they are now old together. But it can be seen that my friend's life is declining financially/not being successful. I don't know whether this has anything to do with his life being with WL or whether he is no longer in his prime. But 3 of my friends who have WL wives experienced the same fate

Maybe the women's karma happened to the partners who married them. Their partner's fortune because in the past the woman lied a lot to take money from many men

[nta88]

maybe its the man's owned ability/ destinity of life? if the man is capable/ sucessful in life in the first place, why would he wanted to be with a wl, instead of pursuing a marriage life with a normal local woman?

[sytlover123]

Originally Posted by dumbling

Maybe the women's karma happened to the partners who married them. Their partner's fortune because in the past the woman lied a lot to take money from many men

Its make sense ya

[Rubbaking]

Originally Posted by sytlover123

Some of my friends are still together until they have children and are adults. and they are now old together. But it can be seen that my friend's life is declining financially/not being successful. I don't know whether this has anything to do with his life being with WL or whether he is no longer in his prime. But 3 of my friends who have WL wives experienced the same fate

Thanks for sharing. I have two friends with same outcome and worse, both divorced in the end and left with nothing while the ex-wives went back to flesh trade. Not sure if it is a curse to be with a wl. With singapore inflationary living, unless the man and the wl went into some successful business, otherwise it is a struggle unless the man has a stable high income without having the wife to work. But usually most wls have wuite high upkeep. Therefore end of day, really need to think carefully before jumping into fire pit. Not to mention the daily drama especially when quarrels broke out and the pasts be brought forward.

[Rubbaking]

Originally Posted by nta88

maybe its the man's owned ability/ destinity of life? if the man is capable/ sucessful in life in the first place, why would he wanted to be with a wl, instead of pursuing a marriage life with a normal local woman?

Must be a very attractive wl who beats hands down local woman. Or might be the man’s second marriage. Only TS would know.

[jhoho]

Originally Posted by sytlover123

Some of my friends are still together until they have children and are adults. and they are now old together. But it can be seen that my friend's life is declining financially/not being successful. I don't know whether this has anything to do with his life being with WL or whether he is no longer in his prime. But 3 of my friends who have WL wives experienced the same fate

My theory is that for them to choose WL wife, they themselves are mentally looking to be savior or something and might not be so successful in normal non transactional relationship, WL themselves are not so stable so maybe they will have lots of drama and up and down. Drama and ups and downs saps energy, therefore less energy to attend to business or job or other venture, therefore less financially successful in the long run.