To be or not to be?

scott-iD · #1 06-09-2006, 01:38 AM

Yet another survey for the bros and sis:

How many of you will still target someone if you know that the person is attached / married? Just heck and chase, or tahan?

Been reading bro Berserk and Madhanuman's threads and became curious about this issue, although i know abit off tangent lah..

Cheers!

curiosityz · #2 06-09-2006, 02:07 AM

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Originally Posted by scott-iD

Yet another survey for the bros and sis:

How many of you will still target someone if you know that the person is attached / married? Just heck and chase, or tahan?

Been reading bro Berserk and Madhanuman's threads and became curious about this issue, although i know abit off tangent lah..

Cheers!

for me is a big NO unless we have known each other for a very long time already

Criminalz · #3 06-09-2006, 02:21 AM

well...let you guys know something.

i have this frd always brag about his Fubu are married women or girls with bf, like that he said no commitment and he is actually doing them a favour and also society a favour..reducing divorce rate...

Recently, he just found out..his wife is also doing the society a favour by fucking other married guys and guys with gf.

Told us he caught her red handed, when one of the days, he not meeting his fubu decided to surprise his wife at her office, saw her leaving together with another guy, trail them to a hotel room. then waited for 15 mins, then went to knock door...

Stupig guy opened the door in his boxers, my frd kick the door in and saw his wife naked lying on the bed...anyway, all hell broke loose...wan to wack the guy, dunno watever the fuck happen, but the guy told him, his wife has been fucking a lot of guys almost like public property...aiyah long story cut short...seems that his wife does not know of his affairs outside, she is just lonely and needed love and now he is feeling regret he should have spend the time with his wife instead of looking for fuck.

SO!!!...but to me theres always 2 sides to a story...maybe he lucky he is fucking around outside so now at least he is not at the losing end of the deal..

watever it is...play with fire, be prepared to be burned...

nuclearkid · #4 06-09-2006, 08:00 AM

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maybe he lucky he is fucking around outside so now at least he is not at the losing end of the deal..

I enjoyed your philosophical humour.

But yea, live by the sword, die by the sword. How's the situation now, things sorted out? Don't think got mood to continue fucking around outside after experiencing the first hand feeling of betrayal?

scott-iD · #5 07-09-2006, 02:00 AM

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Don't think got mood to continue fucking around outside after experiencing the first hand feeling of betrayal?

I think "sian 1/2" will be an real understatement! Aiyah, but no joke lah this kind of thing.. wife as public property..

KingEros · #6 07-09-2006, 02:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Criminalz

i have this frd always brag about his Fubu are married women or girls with bf, like that he said no commitment and he is actually doing them a favour and also society a favour..reducing divorce rate...

For a moment, I thought you were talking about me.

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Recently, he just found out..his wife is also doing the society a favour by fucking other married guys and guys with gf...

watever it is...play with fire, be prepared to be burned...

Wise words indeed ...
Well, that's what risk management is all about ... at the end of the day, just hafta be prepared to face the consequences.

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How many of you will still target someone if you know that the person is attached / married? Just heck and chase, or tahan?

Back to the original discussion ... I think the safest play is not to set off limiting your prey, but to just be a hunter sensitive to the body languages & other signals of invitation.

Hugo168 · #7 07-09-2006, 02:55 AM

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I enjoyed your philosophical humour.

But yea, live by the sword, die by the sword. How's the situation now, things sorted out? Don't think got mood to continue fucking around outside after experiencing the first hand feeling of betrayal?

Well everything goes around comes around.
The world is a game we are the players, when the day we have had enough look back and not regret not doing anything that is the important part of life itself.

Clonie · #8 07-09-2006, 11:10 AM

i believe in karma..so basically if the girl i like is attached/married..i can choose to wait to see if they eventually break up/divorce if i find the girl is worth the wait. But i'll definately not do anything on purpose to break up a person's relationship/marriage..

scott-iD · #9 07-09-2006, 12:04 PM

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But i'll definately not do anything on purpose to break up a person's relationship/marriage..

Interesting, so if she's attached but feels like a fling at the moment, you'll oblige?

scott-iD · #10 07-09-2006, 12:08 PM

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.. when the day we have had enough look back and not regret not doing anything that is the important part of life itself.

Yes better than thinking of all the "what ifs", but then, i think many of those things will require balls to carry out leh

scott-iD · #11 07-09-2006, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by KingEros

Back to the original discussion ... I think the safest play is not to set off limiting your prey, but to just be a hunter sensitive to the body languages & other signals of invitation.

Yea that was what i was curious about, because i think some bros will still tahan even if the lady is naked, because she's attached

So just polling for reponses loh

hubber26 · #12 07-09-2006, 12:19 PM

When your small head is thinking over your big head? Any cunt will be your prey.

When your big head thinking over your small head? You choses your cunt.

As what Hugo168 said, what comes around goes around... I have seem so many things in life but its totally different when it really hits you. eg:

1)I never thought that I will be having an extra affair when I saw or reading in newspaper or show until I really experiencing it now. or
2) Your wife cheating on you or whateever

I admit and agree with karma. Just dun kill yourself or hurt anyone else if retribution really hits you!

hubber26 · #13 07-09-2006, 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by scott-iD

Yea that was what i was curious about, because i think some bros will still tahan even if the lady is naked, because she's attached

So just polling for reponses loh

Nowadays, duno why, even I watching porn or seeing fish tank in geylang doesn't turn me on. I only had the urge of sex only with my syt. For my case, i think its the feeling that needs to build up counts.

Clonie · #14 07-09-2006, 06:36 PM

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Interesting, so if she's attached but feels like a fling at the moment, you'll oblige?

bro, read my sentence properly leh. already said i wont do anything on purpose to break up the r/s lor..naturally no no to the fling lah..

steve · #15 07-09-2006, 06:59 PM

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How many of you will still target someone if you know that the person is attached / married? Just heck and chase, or tahan?

Me !

Almost all my flings / ons are all married or attached.

Why ? Cos I am too the same status with them.

Those single ones get very glue'y which I dun have the luxury of time for them.